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Parental Alienation is Child Abuse

Parental Alienation is Child Abuse

Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine

Written by Randi Fine

Parental alienation is a severe form of child abuse that poisons the mind, heart and soul of far too many innocent children. It scars children emotionally and psychologically for a lifetime, and leads to depression, addiction, suicide, criminal activity, inappropriate sexualized behavior, and more.

The campaign of child abuse occurs after divorce when one parent wants only to hurt, punish, and destroy the other. In this process children, through manipulation, lies, and false accusations, are turned against the targeted, alienated parent whom they previously loved. Estrangement from that parent follows.

Every year, thousands of children are psychologically abused against the other parent with lies. This should be recognized as a crime of Child Abuse and an Abuse of Human Rights. Children deserve the right to both parents and parents have the right to be parents. Pushing a parent out destroys a child’s life because children need both parents’ love and care for healthy development. ~Irfan Atesnak

Irfan Atesnak, founder and CEO of the non-profit organization together4changes was and still is a victim of parental alienation. He has been unsuccessfully fighting to get his three children back for over nine years. Irfan has spent millions of dollars on legal defense and gotten absolutely nowhere. His ex-spouse is relentless in her determination to ruin him. Not only has she turned the children who loved him dearly against him, she has had him physically assaulted, severely beaten up, and arrested for crimes he did not commit.

Through the founding of together4changes Mr. Atesnak is determined to turn his traumatic personal experience into a vehicle of prevention. Through education and awareness, he hopes to offer survivors resources, guidance and support. And most of all he wants to save children from a lifetime of suffering.

If you are a “Targeted Parent” of alienation, narcissistic or otherwise, or know someone who is, please sign this petition to help criminalize parental alienation. And please share this link on your social media accounts.

If you’d like to reach out to Irfan you can email him at

Randi Fine is the podcast host of A Fine Time for Healing, narcissistic abuse counselor/coach for clients worldwide, and the author of Close Encounters of the Worst Kind: The Narcissistic Abuse Survivor’s Guide to Healing and Recovery and Cliffedge Road: A Memoir.

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