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Chronic Overachieving: Collateral Damage of Childhood Narcissistic Abuse

Chronic Overachieving Collateral Damage of Childhood Narcissistic Abuse Written by Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Under-nurtured children often become overgivers and overachievers in adulthood. While the gifts they  give to everyone else are enormous, true joy can only happen when they finally give themselves unconditional love for who they are, …

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In These Troubling Times: Choosing to Walk In Your Own Power

In These Troubling Times Choosing to Walk In Your Own Power Written by Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine In these troubling times I would like to offer another perspective; a more realistic, hopeful, proactive one I believe. There is injustice in this world. No one ever said life is fair. …

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Influence and Control: The Wisdom to Know the Difference

Influence and Control The Wisdom to Know the Difference Written by Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine We make plans – the Universe laughs When facing the challenges life brings it is important to understand the difference between influence and control; what is within our power, what is not, and what …

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Parental Alienation: When Children Are Turned Against the Loving Parent

Parental Alienation When Children Are Turned Against the Loving Parent Written by Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine The most heartbreaking work I do is helping parental alienation victims; desperate parents whose children have been turned against them by a vindictive narcissistic ex-partner. These loving parents feel helpless when the children …

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Psychological Splitting In Parental Alienation Victims

The Intention of Words: Listen Carefully Psychological Splitting Written by Karen Woodall, Trans-Generational Psychotherapist Treating Parental Alienation “When a child is alienated they are suffering from induced psychological splitting which causes them to shut down part of their internalised experience of self and dismiss it as being wholly bad and negative. They then project these …

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