What the @#$%? is Wrong With My Family The Chaos, Confusion, and Madness of Growing Up in a Narcissistic Family Written by Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Have you ever asked yourself, “What the @#$%? is wrong with my family”? Are you confused by the bizarre behavior of your family …
Narcissistic Mothers and Enabling Fathers When Children Don’t Stand a Chance Written by Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Narcissistic mothers do not have children for the right reasons. They are not nurturers. They have no maternal instincts or genuine love to give. To the narcissistic mother, children represent a captive …
Narcissistic Triangulation Sabotages Sibling Relationships When Parents Divide Their Children Through Triangulation Written by Randi G. Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Due to the plethora of crazy dynamics, such as narcissistic triangulation, that exist within a family influenced by narcissistic parents, there are many casualties suffered by the children. Not …
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Pathological Enmeshment When Children Are Alienated From a Targeted Parent Written by Randi Fine Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine “Pathological Enmeshment” is where the alienating parent has an unhealthy enmeshment with the child to the point where the child has lost his or her own individuality.” ~Steven Miller, M.D., Internationally-known expert on …
Enmeshed Families The Enmeshed Family: What It Is and How to “Unmesh” written by Chris Lewis, Ed.S., LPC Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine (Enmeshed Families is an expression) most of us have heard before, often when describing families that are extremely close and tightly wound. But what does it mean? Aren’t families …
Positive Parenting Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Written by Randi Fine Positive Parenting My most important mission in life was to raise emotionally healthy children—children who were not saddled with emotional baggage that hindered their ability to blossom, grow, and soar. I was ready and willing to do anything to assure …
Is One Parent a Narcissist and the Other an Enabler? Written by Randi Fine, Narcissistic Personality Disorder Abuse Expert To find out if you have a narcissistic parent and a parent who enables him or her, please answer yes or no to the following twenty questions: Did you grow up in a two parent home …
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Can Your Children Be Honest? Parenting Advice: Establishing Open Communication and Trust Written by Randi Fine Children go through phases, particularly during their adolescent years, when they see no logical or justifiable reason to communicate with their parents for any reason other than to have their most basic needs or their material desires met. After …
You Are Living Your Life But Are You Living Your Legacy? Conclusion of a Three Part Article Written by Randi Fine You may not realize it but your life has been influenced by or benefited from the lives of those who have gone before you; your parents, grandparents, great grandparents. They have brought you to …
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Leaving Your Very Best Legacy Behind Written by Randi G. Fine Excerpted from the October 15, 2012 show on A Fine Time for Healing, Are You Living Your Legacy? Whatever we achieve in life–the knowledge we acquire, and the challenges we rise above– gets passed down through the generations that follow after us. Our words …
