Is Your “Good” Parent an Enabling Spouse? Written by Randi Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Coach Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Does your narcissistic parent have an enabling spouse that facilitates her abuse? Do you view that parent as being the good and loving one? An enabling spouse is the ultimate accomplice …
Life Transitions: Part Two The Uncertain Spaces Between Beginnings and Endings Written by Randi Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Endings are not sudden, nor are beginnings. They come about through the process of transition. Transitions, the uncertain spaces between the beginnings and endings of change, the pauses and …
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Life Transitions: Part One Life Transitions Are Uncomfortable, Difficult But Necessary Written by Randi Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Life transitions are uncomfortable and difficult, but they are a necessary part of personal soul growth and the evolution of humanity. To quote Charles Darwin, “It is not the …
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Denial Benefits and Danger of Emotional Blindness Written by Randi Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine Denial is characterized by the refusal to acknowledge or accept painful truths, distressing thoughts, and uncomfortable feelings despite overwhelming evidence that the reality exists. Denial is not always a bad thing. It is …
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Identifying Unexpressed Emotions What is Your Emotional Awareness About Your Past? Written by Randi Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine To find out if you are having trouble identifying unexpressed emotions, please answer yes or no to the following twenty questions: Do you have painful childhood memories that you …
Giving Up Control Accepting What You Cannot Change and Going with the Flow Written by Randi Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference. “ …
Self Love and Acceptance Affirmation Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine This passage was found on the website, Unity of Farmington Hills. I know that The Universe is the one and only source of my being. Spirit Itself created me. Life Itself lives through me. Love Itself sustains me. I am important and connected …
Having a Positive Self Worth and Self Image What would happen if we gave up measuring ourselves in terms of inches and years, what we have, and what we have done with our lives, and just celebrated the changes as they came? What if we stop thinking we need improving and just enjoyed ourselves, our …
Image Source Self Love Comes Before All Else “You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” ~Buddha So many women struggle with the concept of self-love. Women by nature are nurturers, caretakers. Many of us believe that it is our duty to give and give, even beyond the point where …
No Substitute for Happiness…Or is There? Article Written by Linda Hunter Published on Life As a Human Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Guidance with Randi Fine What is it about the state of HAPPINESS that has it in such high demand? Parents often wish only for their children to “be happy’ while the world and …
