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Hoovering: How the Narcissist Keeps Sucking You Back In
Narcissistic hoovering is a common manipulation tactic used by individuals with NPD to regain control over those they’ve distanced from.
Dec 1, 20245 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Healing: Navigating the Many Challenges
The challenges of healing after narcissistic abuse are among the most tormenting, inhumane, struggles any person could ever have to face.
Dec 1, 20243 min read


Narcissistic Mothers: Destroying the Lives of Children Everywhere
Narcissistic mothers are not loving, comforting, protective, supportive or reliable. They are far from the idealized version of a mother.
Nov 30, 20246 min read


Attachment Style In Relationships: How Childhood Shapes Your Adult Love Life
Have you ever wondered why you have a particular way of connecting with others? Your style of attachment might hold the key.
Nov 26, 20247 min read


Narcissistic Personality Disorder Characteristics: Clever, Cunning and Diabolical
Those with NPD often exhibit a cleverness that can be captivating and a cunning nature that feels diabolical in interpersonal relationships.
Nov 25, 20247 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Awareness: Why Statistics Are Unjust to Victims
Narcissistic abuse awareness is increasingly recognized in society but the statistics often fail to capture the experience of those affected
Nov 24, 20244 min read


Parental Alienation Syndrome: A Compassionate, Compelling Perspective for Targeted Parents
A compassionate and compelling perspective, one not commonly considered, to help targeted parents cope with difficult emotions and guilt.
Nov 22, 20248 min read


Denial: Benefits and Dangers of Emotional Blindness
Denial becomes a problem when we use it for extended periods of time to avoid accepting a truth or working through our issues.
Nov 19, 20249 min read


Why Do Narcissists Lie? The Top Fifteen Most Common Fibs They Tell
Diving into the top 15 lies narcissists tell, unraveling their manipulative tactics and shedding light on their deceptive ways.
Nov 15, 202418 min read


Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: What Is The Best Method For You?
A specialized approach is needed for those who have endured narcissistic abuse and the complex challenges that accompany it.
Nov 14, 20244 min read


Thanksgiving 2024: Finding Gratitude During Challenging Times
Thanksgiving 2024 Finding Gratitude During Challenging Times Written by Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Recovery Coach Randi Fine...
Nov 13, 20246 min read


Narcissistic Family: The Chaos, Confusion, and Madness of Growing Up in Toxic Dysfunction
Have you ever asked yourself, "What the @#$%? is wrong with my family"? Are you confused by the bizarre behavior of your family members?
Nov 12, 20244 min read


Confronting Your Narcissistic Abuser: Ten Things You Should Know
Are you an survivor of abuse who cannot let your resentments go without first confronting your narcissistic abuser? Ten things to know.
Nov 11, 20244 min read


Narcissistic Emotional Abuse Recovery
The abuse you suffered was severe. Though invisible to the eye, narcissistic emotional abuse can be far more damaging than physical abuse.
Nov 10, 20245 min read


Narcissistic Family: Frustration and Disappointment
The narcissistic family, unlike conventional families, are neither devoted nor cohesive. They are dictatorships; not democracies.
Nov 9, 20243 min read


The Plight of Sons With Narcissistic Mothers
Very little has been written about the plight of sons with narcissistic mothers. That is grossly unfair to the thousands of men who suffer..
Nov 7, 202410 min read


Dark Triad Personality: Dangers of This Unseen Threat
The Dark Triad Personality - The Dark Triad traits come with a shallow moral compass and a knack for manipulation.
Nov 6, 20249 min read


Malignant Narcissists: A Deep Dive into the Dark Side of Personality Disorders
Due to their diabolical, heartless and fiendish behavior, many people refer to their narcissistic abusers as being "malignant".
Nov 5, 20244 min read


The Addictive Personality
In this blog post, we explore the traits of addictive personalities, their causes, societal implications, and paths toward recovery.
Nov 4, 202413 min read


Divorcing A Narcissist? How to Assemble the Essential Winning Team
Investing a modest amount in your high conflict divorce team now can save you from facing tens of thousands in legal expenses down the line.
Oct 30, 20247 min read
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