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Borderline Personality Disorder: Exploring the Intricacies of a Challenging Mental Health Condition
Unlike those without BPD, who often see gray areas in their thoughts and feelings, individuals with BPD experience an all-or-nothing mindset
Jan 238 min read


Narcissistic Families: Roles Assigned To And Played By Children
Many lifetime burdens are placed on children growing up in narcissistic families. The roles placed on them cause a lifetime of problems.
Jan 1910 min read


What Causes Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Can "Good Parents" Raise Children Who Develop It?
Exploring the question many ask: what causes narcissistic personality disorder, and if good parents can raise children who develop it?
Dec 25, 20244 min read


Narcissistic Parents: Why Children Always Have a Debt to Pay
Narcissistic parents often manipulate their relationships with their children in ways that can leave deep emotional scars.
Dec 22, 20245 min read


Narcissistic Families: The Unspoken Rules Children Must Navigate
Emotional child abuse in narcissistic families is a criminal act of domestic abuse that goes largely unnoticed.
Dec 20, 20244 min read


Narcissistic Family: Breaking Free From The Enmeshment of Toxic Bonds
Narcissistic families are marked by a lack of empathy and a need for control. Steps toward freedom signify your strength and resilience.
Dec 14, 20244 min read


How to Deal With Narcissists: Learn Their Strategies, Use Them, And Take Back Control!
Learn how to deal with narcissists by watching their strategies and using them, ultimately helping you take control back in your life.
Dec 10, 20245 min read


Leaving a Narcissistic Relationship: The Top Twelve Excuses Survivors Use That Keep Them Stuck
This post examines twelve excuses frequently used to justify staying in abusive, narcissistic relationships.
Dec 9, 202411 min read


Parenting Strategies: How To Raise Emotionally Healthy Children
We cannot fool ourselves into thinking that children will do as we say, not as we do. Our actions speak volumes louder than our words.
Dec 7, 20244 min read


Hoovering: How the Narcissist Keeps Sucking You Back In
Narcissistic hoovering is a common manipulation tactic used by individuals with NPD to regain control over those they’ve distanced from.
Dec 1, 20245 min read


Narcissistic Mothers: Destroying the Lives of Children Everywhere
Narcissistic mothers are not loving, comforting, protective, supportive or reliable. They are far from the idealized version of a mother.
Nov 30, 20246 min read


Parental Alienation Syndrome: A Compassionate, Compelling Perspective for Targeted Parents
A compassionate and compelling perspective, one not commonly considered, to help targeted parents cope with difficult emotions and guilt.
Nov 22, 20248 min read


Long Term Effects of Narcissistic Abuse: Impact of Childhood Trauma Lasts A Lifetime
The long term effects of narcissistic abuse sets children up for a lifetime of and a plethora of frustrating issues in adulthood.
Nov 17, 20243 min read


Narcissistic Family: The Chaos, Confusion, and Madness of Growing Up in Toxic Dysfunction
Have you ever asked yourself, "What the @#$%? is wrong with my family"? Are you confused by the bizarre behavior of your family members?
Nov 12, 20244 min read


Confronting Your Narcissistic Abuser: Ten Things You Should Know
Are you an survivor of abuse who cannot let your resentments go without first confronting your narcissistic abuser? Ten things to know.
Nov 11, 20244 min read


Narcissistic Emotional Abuse Recovery
The abuse you suffered was severe. Though invisible to the eye, narcissistic emotional abuse can be far more damaging than physical abuse.
Nov 10, 20245 min read


Narcissistic Family: Frustration and Disappointment
The narcissistic family, unlike conventional families, are neither devoted nor cohesive. They are dictatorships; not democracies.
Nov 9, 20243 min read


The Plight of Sons With Narcissistic Mothers
Very little has been written about the plight of sons with narcissistic mothers. That is grossly unfair to the thousands of men who suffer..
Nov 7, 202410 min read


The Hidden Pain of Sons of Narcissistic Maternal Emotional Incest
Emotional incest isn't just a concept; for sons of narcissistic maternal emotional incest it's a painful reality.
Nov 3, 202411 min read


Toxic Parents: Must We Honor and Respect Them?
Toxic parents can leave deep scars leading to the question: Do we still need to honor and respect our parents despite their harmful actions?
Oct 22, 20246 min read
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